Valuable.

Hey folks..

This is just an instant thought that struck my mind while I was going through my Facebook wall yesterday. I read a post which is the sole reason of my article today.

Let me begin with a question.

Is it normal for people to keep questioning or doubting about their own existence?

How many times did you get these questions? (If you never did, then you are living the best of your life)

Am I really worthy?

Does someone around me value me enough for being there with them?

Well, if you ask me. There are situations where people do get these questions to themselves.

They do question there existence.

They do get this evident doubt of why are they even living this life when nobody values them when they are around.

And to nobody’s surprise these days.

This is the most common reason why we see lot of teenagers or young adults commit suicide.

It truly is very saddening to here any such incidents taking place. And, its quite common these days to hear such news on daily basis.

My only attempt today would be to try and stop this saddening act of suicide.

This tendency of giving up your life comes from this very root cause of not being valued or liked among the peers.

If anyone of you ever feel that your are not being valued. Then please note my words.

There is always another side to a coin.

It’s just the way you consider or take things to yourself. If you say that nobody values you. Then of course no one will and it will be the reason for your pain, distress, agony and it will start eating you up.

But if you would think the other way round.

Start thinking to yourself that if anyone doesn’t value you.

Then they don’t know your value..It’s as simple as that.

Always remember that you are valuable and you are valuable to your mom and dad .. your brother and sister .. They will love you always no matter what.

And, If you don’t value yourself. Then be sure that people would also not value someone who doesn’t even value their own self.

Truth of the moment is that YOU ARE VALUABLE and at any given moment of time.. you should always know and keep reminding yourself that you are the most valuable person.

Start being strong and positive in your approach towards you and your life around you. Only then will you start noticing that, how things will start changing around you.

Happy Reading! ☺️

Disclaimer: Please feel free to drop your thoughts on this highly sensitive topic I have spoken on today. If something that I have expressed is harsh or inappropriate to the readers please bear with me for it.

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32 thoughts on “Valuable.”

  3. It is a big tragedy if this undervaluing is the course of the increased rate of suicides.
    Sadly, you can never ask the person in such darkness what really triggered them.
    Yes, we should all value ourselves, we are equal part of this wonderful planet, born with so much to cherish.
    We should also spend time showing that we value people around us, I think the interactions will create light.

    miriam

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    • Oh nice to know that .. it is always important to spread awareness on it as much as we can. I believe if atleast one soul gets saved from what we write then the purpose of it would be served.. 😊

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  7. Great post. Sometimes family can be the greatest source of distress. The ones who instigate the questions. I don’t think it matters who cherishes us or where we feel valuable, either ways the feeling of wanting to matter is innate.

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  8. Oh wow.. I’d like to think that great minds think alike. The reason of which is this. A couple of hours before reading this beautiful article , I just posted a new blog post entitled two sides of a coin.

    Although your was written from a completely different perspective and mine was stemmed out from the idea of love, it still revolved around the concept of a coin.

    Thank you for this great inspiration.

    Irregardless of our strengths and our weaknesses we are all valuable.

    ❤️Eva

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  10. Hi

    Thank you. I am happy to see your  writing. It gives me a thoughtful thinking and am  happy for that. That is always my intention to see a post that gives me happiness.

    Am happy  to share at least a part of that happiness and love here as am  writing now.

    What you said in your post  is true, sometimes just a drop of that magical post in your blog  is enough to get a person to be happy.

    Good one

    Well, If I wish to be happy is inevitable to keep the vibes flowing.

    Cheers,

    PATRICK

    #PATRICKSTORIES
    Peace ✌and Love ❤

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      • Thank you! I appreciate your thoughtful response.

        Such an awesome way of replying someone. Thanks. Again
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        #PATRICKSTORIES
        Peace ✌and Love ❤

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  11. Thanks    for accepting and following my blog.

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  13. Great blog! It’s incredibly heart-breaking that a large amount of people feel so isolated or unworthy to the point of believing that leaving this world would be a better option. I agree with you. Sometimes we cause a lot of the damage ourselves. We start believing the things that people say and viewing ourselves with a negative light. It’s important to practice self-love and be mindful of how you’re treating yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally.

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