Hey folks..
This is just an instant thought that struck my mind while I was going through my Facebook wall yesterday. I read a post which is the sole reason of my article today.
Let me begin with a question.
Is it normal for people to keep questioning or doubting about their own existence?
How many times did you get these questions? (If you never did, then you are living the best of your life)
Am I really worthy?
Does someone around me value me enough for being there with them?
Well, if you ask me. There are situations where people do get these questions to themselves.
They do question there existence.
They do get this evident doubt of why are they even living this life when nobody values them when they are around.
And to nobody’s surprise these days.
This is the most common reason why we see lot of teenagers or young adults commit suicide.
It truly is very saddening to here any such incidents taking place. And, its quite common these days to hear such news on daily basis.
My only attempt today would be to try and stop this saddening act of suicide.
This tendency of giving up your life comes from this very root cause of not being valued or liked among the peers.
If anyone of you ever feel that your are not being valued. Then please note my words.
There is always another side to a coin.
It’s just the way you consider or take things to yourself. If you say that nobody values you. Then of course no one will and it will be the reason for your pain, distress, agony and it will start eating you up.
But if you would think the other way round.
Start thinking to yourself that if anyone doesn’t value you.
Then they don’t know your value..It’s as simple as that.
Always remember that you are valuable and you are valuable to your mom and dad .. your brother and sister .. They will love you always no matter what.
And, If you don’t value yourself. Then be sure that people would also not value someone who doesn’t even value their own self.
Truth of the moment is that YOU ARE VALUABLE and at any given moment of time.. you should always know and keep reminding yourself that you are the most valuable person.
Start being strong and positive in your approach towards you and your life around you. Only then will you start noticing that, how things will start changing around you.
Happy Reading! ☺️
Disclaimer: Please feel free to drop your thoughts on this highly sensitive topic I have spoken on today. If something that I have expressed is harsh or inappropriate to the readers please bear with me for it.
This so awesome and it’s very true! Thanks for sharing it😊!
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Thanks so much Asher ☺️ Glad you liked it .. ❤️
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Everybody needs to read this loud and clear.
“They don’t know your value, it’s as simple as that.” – the plain truth.
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Exactly.. if everyone start realising it.. then there would be huge reduction in loss of life to suicide.
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So true
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It is a big tragedy if this undervaluing is the course of the increased rate of suicides.
Sadly, you can never ask the person in such darkness what really triggered them.
Yes, we should all value ourselves, we are equal part of this wonderful planet, born with so much to cherish.
We should also spend time showing that we value people around us, I think the interactions will create light.
miriam
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Interactions will definitely play a vital role to get such thoughts out from any person who is going through such darkness .. well said .. very true.. 👍
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I think we all experience an existential crisis at some point in our lives. It’s a time to reflect, take stock, make changes, let go. Its life
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Totally agree with it.. well said 👍😊
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This is so true 💯
Just wrote on this topic two days ago
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Oh nice to know that .. it is always important to spread awareness on it as much as we can. I believe if atleast one soul gets saved from what we write then the purpose of it would be served.. 😊
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Spreading awareness is invaluable. If only they knew that we are ALL worthy and valued!
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True that 😊
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Great post. Sometimes family can be the greatest source of distress. The ones who instigate the questions. I don’t think it matters who cherishes us or where we feel valuable, either ways the feeling of wanting to matter is innate.
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Thank you so much ..😊 and yes totally agree with what your saying for sure family is the greatest source of distress.. ❤️
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Oh wow.. I’d like to think that great minds think alike. The reason of which is this. A couple of hours before reading this beautiful article , I just posted a new blog post entitled two sides of a coin.
Although your was written from a completely different perspective and mine was stemmed out from the idea of love, it still revolved around the concept of a coin.
Thank you for this great inspiration.
Irregardless of our strengths and our weaknesses we are all valuable.
❤️Eva
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Very well said .. thank you so much Eva 😊 yea.. I did read about the article your speaking about here .. it truly is awesome too ..
Thank you for stopping by and appreciating my blog posts. Really means a lot ❤️😊
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Anytime. 😊
I’m glad to hear a very positive feedback from you as well. Cheers to supporting each other 😊
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Cheers.. 🙌 😊
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Thanks for liking my post.
COMPANIONSHIP-FROM YOUNG TO OLD
I appreciate that very much. Thanks again
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace ✌and Love ❤
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Hi
Thank you. I am happy to see your writing. It gives me a thoughtful thinking and am happy for that. That is always my intention to see a post that gives me happiness.
Am happy to share at least a part of that happiness and love here as am writing now.
What you said in your post is true, sometimes just a drop of that magical post in your blog is enough to get a person to be happy.
Good one
Well, If I wish to be happy is inevitable to keep the vibes flowing.
Cheers,
PATRICK
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Peace ✌and Love ❤
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Thank you so much Patrick! 💕 Means a lot.. glad you liked em.. 😊
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Thank you! I appreciate your thoughtful response.
Such an awesome way of replying someone. Thanks. Again
As always your posts are incredible and I enjoying reading every word down till the last line. I must say that you are probably one of the excellent bloggers on WordPress that write inspired
Writing/post
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Would love to know your views. Love to see your contributions on it. I’m always excited for your comment. 🙂
You are welcome
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace ✌and Love ❤
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This is really overwhelming.. thanks a lot for saying this.. ❤️ surely will drop my views on your post.. thanks much again 🙂🙌
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That is always my intention to comment on a good work/post that touches me.
You are welcome
I still remain the simple blogger…..
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace ✌and Love ❤
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Thanks for accepting and following my blog.
I’m available to read your post at my convenient time.
You have such an interesting topic I will love to read in
your blog.
I still remain the simple blogger…..
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace ✌and Love ❤
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Thanks much for for your time and effort to go through my posts when ever possible.. cheers for us to read appreciate one another’s efforts 🙌 ❤️
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That is always my intention to comment on a good work/post that touches me.
You are welcome
I still remain the simple blogger…..
#PATRICKSTORIES
Peace ✌and Love ❤
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we maintain values and principles in life….
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Great blog! It’s incredibly heart-breaking that a large amount of people feel so isolated or unworthy to the point of believing that leaving this world would be a better option. I agree with you. Sometimes we cause a lot of the damage ourselves. We start believing the things that people say and viewing ourselves with a negative light. It’s important to practice self-love and be mindful of how you’re treating yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally.
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Exactly.. It’s very saddening to know this truth of the hour. As you said too, in your recent post and very much here now, it’s really important to practice self love and be mindful of what you do with yourself.
Thank you so much for stopping by and appreciating the post.. definitely means a lot.. 🙂
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Anytime.
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