Valuable.

Hey folks..

This is just an instant thought that struck my mind while I was going through my Facebook wall yesterday. I read a post which is the sole reason of my article today.

Let me begin with a question.

Is it normal for people to keep questioning or doubting about their own existence?

How many times did you get these questions? (If you never did, then you are living the best of your life)

Am I really worthy?

Does someone around me value me enough for being there with them?

Well, if you ask me. There are situations where people do get these questions to themselves.

They do question there existence.

They do get this evident doubt of why are they even living this life when nobody values them when they are around.

And to nobody’s surprise these days.

This is the most common reason why we see lot of teenagers or young adults commit suicide.

It truly is very saddening to here any such incidents taking place. And, its quite common these days to hear such news on daily basis.

My only attempt today would be to try and stop this saddening act of suicide.

This tendency of giving up your life comes from this very root cause of not being valued or liked among the peers.

If anyone of you ever feel that your are not being valued. Then please note my words.

There is always another side to a coin.

It’s just the way you consider or take things to yourself. If you say that nobody values you. Then of course no one will and it will be the reason for your pain, distress, agony and it will start eating you up.

But if you would think the other way round.

Start thinking to yourself that if anyone doesn’t value you.

Then they don’t know your value..It’s as simple as that.

Always remember that you are valuable and you are valuable to your mom and dad .. your brother and sister .. They will love you always no matter what.

And, If you don’t value yourself. Then be sure that people would also not value someone who doesn’t even value their own self.

Truth of the moment is that YOU ARE VALUABLE and at any given moment of time.. you should always know and keep reminding yourself that you are the most valuable person.

Start being strong and positive in your approach towards you and your life around you. Only then will you start noticing that, how things will start changing around you.

Happy Reading! ☺️

Disclaimer: Please feel free to drop your thoughts on this highly sensitive topic I have spoken on today. If something that I have expressed is harsh or inappropriate to the readers please bear with me for it.

How to be Strong

Strong.

Hey folks..

Good Morning.. let’s begin our day with a dose of motivational drug into our system, which can keep us energetic and motivated for the rest of our week 🙂

So, How many of you’ll have observed the scenic beauty of mountains while your travelling across different cities by road, rail or airways?

Well, the objective here is not which mode of transportation you use to travel across places. But, objective is that amazing beauty of mountains that we observe during any of such travels.

Best travel spot to witness this scenic beauty of mountains is ghats section. Correct me if I am wrong with this. Don’t you feel that its such a beautiful place where you enjoy the beauty of mountains surrounding you?

Yes, for me it definitely is one of the most beautiful places..

I would like to travel again and again just to witness such scenic beauty of nature amidst so many wonderful mountains and everything on and around it.

Well, Coming to the core of today’s topic. Can there be any better example other than these mountains to show the real essence of being strong?

To sum it up in short – These mountains are literally split into two at times – to create roadways or railways. It witnesses huge land slides. In places of volcanoes, it bares the brutal heat of lava flowing on top of it. It witnesses the changing weather conditions (scorching heat, heavy rainfall, snowfall and so on..) 24*7 and 356 days.

Even after facing every single bit of it on every single day. Does it fail to mesmerize you with its serene beauty? Never right.

And that is the best thing which we need to learn and incorporate in our lives too.

Often we see that we come across many difficult situations in our day-to-day life. We breakdown. We get upset. We start getting irritated. Start being annoyed of every single thing around us.

But, instead of reacting in such a way that it disrupts us more and more..

Why can’t we actually stand still and face the situations with upright face, with the bright smile that trashes away every situation and give us the courage required to overcome any situation and live our life to the fullest?

I have always believed and tried to follow this one point on being strong. No matter what happens.

If you can smile even through your troubles even after being in the worst possible situations and you give a try to overcome it.

Then it is the true sign of you being the strongest of all.

Conclusion:

Never let anything break you down or shatter you to pieces. Always remember that no trouble or situation is any way bigger than who you really are.

Make every trouble around you look smaller in front of you and chase them all with a beautiful smile on your face. Then you will see how everything around you turns out to be the best you could ever imagine 🙂

Please do like, comment your views or feedback and please do share with your loved ones, friends and colleagues. If you do, then it will definitely keep me motivated to write more and more such inspirational articles in future.

Happy Reading ❤

Success

Noise.

Hey Folks..

It’s Monday morning, and my post today is to make this minute noise in your inbox with the notification of my “Motivational Monday” post 😉

Well, today I thought let me speak about this word noise.

Yes, you might be thinking what can be motivational with this term noise. Right? Well, it does. It does bring some motivation within each one of us by the way we consider it to be.

Confused?

Let me clear it for you.

There are different types of noises that we come across in our day to day life. Like,  Honking of vehicles. Noise from Crackers. Noise from loud music and many more.

But, today! I am not going to speak about any of such noises I mentioned above.

I will be speaking about the noise that will be made from the way you carry yourself and live your life. How many of you guys out there want to here a noise of failure in your life? No one right? Who wants to hear such negative noises. I would hate to hear such noise for even a split second.

So, it’s quite obvious that everyone of us want to hear the noise of success in our life right?

Do you want to make the noise by your own words by speaking to every other person about it before getting the success?

Or instead, you want your success make some noise and let people know about it rather than you speaking about it by yourself?

The most common mistake that most of us do in our lives is. We speak a lot about the things we want to do. And end up doing just a bit of it or do nothing at all. Due to whatever reasons it might be. And we end up making just the noise without success being part of that noise. 

If you closely think about this once.

How many times in your life till now, have you said something to everyone before doing anything and were not able to achieve it or do it?

And, how many times in your life you have not said anything and have done it successfully which in-turn has made the noise of letting every other person know about it? 

Well, as per what I have learn’t and how much I have understood about this kind of “noise” that we get from success.

If you ask me about it, I would rather say.

The joy we get from the noise that your success makes is incomparable with just the noise that you make through your words before attaining the success you wished for. 

Please do let me know your thoughts about the same. Let me know if you liked the post so that I can continue writing more and more posts like this. And also, do share it with your friends and family members.

Sharing is Caring! Please show some love through your shares and likes as many as you can 

Happy Reading! 🙂

Break Barriers

Are we like these fleas ..

More often I ask this question to myself. Whenever I come across any situation that makes me sulk down and question myself.

Am I doing just enough? Can I do anything better than what I do now? and many more questions like these haunt me day in day out. These are the questions I ask to myself. To know if I have set any limitations to me. Can I break this barrier around to do much better than what I do?

Let me just give an example about these fleas I had read about.

In one of the studies done with fleas. It was observed that a lot of fleas were all put in a single glass container with a lid on top. These fleas immediately tried to jump out of the container but always got hit by the lid. They did try for a while until they realized that there is no way they can get out of this container.

After a while, lid was opened and what you see would boggle your mind.

All the fleas just jumped out of the container and scattered away?

 

Not at all. Much to everyone’s surprise. This was not what happened. All the fleas remained where they were in the container even though the lid was completely opened.

Getting back to the questions that I asked to myself just above this illustration.

And this is the answer I give to myself to get over any situation I am in. Yes, surely I can get over any difficult situations I might be in now. All by faith and determination I can surely achieve the greater heights in my life by breaking every difficult situation I am in right now.

Yes. I strongly believe we should not be like these fleas and condition ourselves to the circumstances that we are in and just be with. We should always try to get over it and get to the greater heights in our life.

Just because of any mere situation or circumstances. We should never give up and live with just anything.

Will you agree to what I just said above? Are you like these fleas? or Can you break through these circumstances to see greater heights in your life?

Well, let me know what you think about this in the comments section below. Looking forward to hear your thoughts.

If you liked this piece of writing from me. Please do like, share and ask your friends to follow me on my blog for much more of these to come 😉

Happy Reading 🙂

Writers Block

Lost but now found..

Hey Guys…

Hope you all are doing great. Well, I am worn out writing apology notes for not being active on my blog since months for now. I kept wondering for myself as to why am I not able to make any time for myself to come and speak out on my blog.

I kept wondering on what could be the reason behind it and asking lot of questions to myself. Could it be because I am a lot stuck with my day-to-day activities revolving around my workplace or for various personal priorities?

After a long wait to figure out what exactly was blocking me out from speaking on my blog. I came across this term called – Writers Block…

Yes, there was a time when I had first begun my blogging journey exactly a year back. And, I use to wonder if there is really anything like this in real? How can anyone get drained out of ideas to write or speak?

And after doing a little bit of research on the same made me realize that what phase of blogging I was going through is what exactly means this term “Writers Block”.  

Definition of Writers Block goes something like this,

Writer’s block is a condition, primarily associated with writing, in which an author loses the ability to produce new work, or experiences a creative slowdown. The condition ranges in difficulty from coming up with original ideas to being unable to produce a work for years

– Source: Wikipedia

And so I did dig into this topic a little more to see what could be the probable reason for this and how long can this last for an individual?

It was observed that, this could be possibly because of no inspiration, no time or no ideas and it could last for nearly few months and if it goes on to nearly a year-long gap then it will be coined as “Writers burnout”.

I thank god that it was just a block for me than a burnout.. ! 😀 

Anyways, I decided to write a post on this and let everyone know the techniques I used and came out of this phase to get started back again.

  1. Talk to an imaginary Friend – This will definitely help you get some boost to get started all over again.
  2. Stop writing for a while – It’s totally okay. It is alright to stop rather than just write anything that is of no value or crappy altogether.
  3. Take a short trip all by yourself or with your friends – It doesn’t really matter if you can just chill yourself and breathe to feel all alive back again.
  4. Reread your superhero posts – yes, this will definitely get you kick started to start penning your thoughts back again. And for me the post that did the trick for me was this –  Cold Coffee & French Fries.

Hope to get back and groove with you all by reading and writing many more posts to come! 😉

Happy Reading! 🙂

Book of Life.

Yes, you might be wondering what this guy is up to now 🤔

I was just going through a book and found that there where many pages in it with many languages, words, sentences and images. To my astonishment, none of the pages were similar. Every single page was different in one or the other way. With single constant in all the pages of the book was the word “YOU”.

Having seen this in a book I realized, this is not just the case with this book. It’s pretty much the same with almost every other book we see in a book shelf. Most of the words get jumbled up to create different sentences and with words many images also get created, which sometimes will have some meaning to it and sometimes they really don’t.

Having said all these, I would now introduce the characters I created in my imaginary world to explain all that I wrote above. Pardon me for making you read this article twice. Because, I am sure you would want to correlate with the metaphors I considered to express my thoughts.

Book shelf – World we live in.

Book – Life of any individual

Pages – Phases in our life.

Languages – Diversified class of people with different culture.

Words – People around like you and me.

Sentences – Moments that get created based on the people in our life.

Images – Dreams that we create to fulfill it someday.

So bottom line is..

Be it of any language, a book is meaningful to read only when it has right set words which will create the best of pages and some memorable sentences which fulfills the images that are created before book is closed.

Never, waste a Book [Life] that is given to you. Create some valuable pages [phases of your life] so that when you look back there are no regrets but are filled with enjoyable sentences [moments] to cherish. Be sure that all your images [dreams] are completed before your book of life is closed [Last breath].

Do you love your book? 🙂 If not, then better start re-writing it soon.. 🙂

Please don’t forget to drop your thoughts on this article using the comments section below. Do let me know how did you feel reading this article. If you liked it feel free to share it with your loved ones to 😉 Means a lot. Happy Reading 🙂

Disclaimer: Based on my personal experience. I have just tried to be a little creative again in expressing my thought about how one should make their life meaningful with proper set of people, dreams, mixture of moments and memories to it.

Marriage – Decision Phase.

Hey guys, I apologize for not writing anything for last few days. Was stuck with loads of work in and out. Anyways, hope you all still there to read and support my writings 🙂

Well, today’s post will be about the phase we go through right before marriage. As most of my friends and me are in a phase of our life, where it is very certain to get notified and be an eligible bachelor to get married. It’s quiet natural to be in the confused state of mind. As to who really is the perfect match for you right?

I hear most of my friends who say out loud that they are getting irritated with this word marriage already. Any thoughts on why this might be happening to them?

As per my understanding, I feel marriage is a very crucial phase in our life. It is such a phase which can either make or break your life. So it very important for us to be careful and choose our partner for life [our better half] very wisely.

And, when we will be in a mindset to take a call on this in a more practical way.. most of the times because of peer pressure from people around you, your relatives, family members, friends, colleagues you end up getting into a state of mind where you get a thought.

God, why do I even have to marry someone. I am doing well all by my own, why can’t everyone just leave me alone.

When you get such thought my friend, I would want you to just seclude yourself from the rest of the world. Stay calm. Sit in a place where it’s only you and no one else to disturb you at-least for sometime. Think over what is the right thing for you to do now? What is it that is exactly bothering you?

Is it that any pressure your feeling because of your relatives & family?

Is it that your still not ready to get married?

Is it that you’re not getting the right partner for your life? 

Think over it calmly, breakdown your thoughts, analyse it. When you feel your helpless you ain’t really able to figure out what to do I humbly request you to bow down before god almighty and seek his guidance. I am sure he will not let you down. In fact, what I honestly suggest everyone is please keep god in first place no matter what decisions your making in your life. Specially in decisions like marriage, it is really very important.

If you feel that you’re going through a lot of peer pressure – Just let the people who matter to you in your family, relatives or whoever it may be to let them know in what state of mind you are and what is actually bothering you. I am sure, if they care for you they will understand your point of view.

If you feel that you’re still not ready for marriage – Please make it clear to your family members about it at the same time give them a clear understanding why you feel so and by when you think you can be okay to get along with it.

If your feeling that you’re not getting the right partner – This is the most trickiest part, there can’t be a generic way of dealing with it. But, if it would be me I would pray to god and ask him to do his will for me, guide me to a person who is the right one for me. I am sure he will lead me to the right one! 🙂

I am not sure, if this was of some help for you. If it was then please drop your comments and feedback’s, would love to read them 🙂

Honest thoughts. Happy Reading 🙂

 

 

Point of view.

This is an instinctive post that I am writing today. It just came to my mind when I was watching a movie while I was having dinner with my family this night.

It’s midnight here in India now and I am writing this post, maybe this is why people who know me well call me as nocturnal these days! 😀.

Coming back to what I was saying. Situation in the movie was something like this.

A marriage proposal breakup took place because the guy [who is self-centered, only cares about his happiness and he just wants to win and live his life just the way he wants to, he was totally against the word compromise and believed that two people in marriage can be happy only when they are exactly the same] on the other side was this girl [who was exactly opposite of how he was, she always cared about others around her, who believed that she would be happy when everyone along with her is happy and the one who believed if two people in marriage needs to be happy it is not necessary that they should be the same in  everything].

With this background, it so happened that the guy felt, the girl was making lot of compromises to make herself fit into his lifestyle, his likes & dislikes. She had to leave her dance for him as she was learning it from past 20 years and enjoyed doing it. Little did he know that the girl was doing all this for him only because she clearly knew and saw that her world and priorities with the marriage would be just him and she was doing all that with her wish and was happy doing it.

After all that took place, girl was shattered to pieces when she knew that the guy whom she had started to love and felt that he is the perfect guy for her had left her completely broken with his point of view.

If you try to understand something from this, this just wasn’t the part of only the movie scene I narrated above. It’s almost the same with you, me and everyone around us these days. Rarely, you try to understand what is the point of view of other person in front of you. Based on whatever the situation you are in, you almost tend to build the probable possibilities, foresee things based on your assumptions and give your verdict to the person standing in front of you and just walk away.

If it does happen like this, for sure you will lose the person who was in front you while you passed the verdict because you never gave him/her any chance of understanding his/her point of view.

Well, because of this I see that most of us loosing out on hard-earned relationships be it friends, family, relatives or whoever it is. Only when you express your point of view & allow the one in front of you to express his point of view. Things get clear. Misunderstanding never occur. Every relationship will be a wonderful place to say without any hatred, misunderstandings and heart-aches.

And yes, later part of the movie the girl somehow made him realize he never gave her a chance to express her point of view and when he got to know what the girl’s point of view was about what he had thought about the compromises she was making for him and why she was doing all that for him. It was a happy ending to movie at the end.

Live your life. Express your point of view. Allow others to express it too and see how life changes in the best possible ways.

Honest opinion. Feel free to express your opinion about this. Let me know if I have missed out on anything. I will surely be more than happy to look into it.

Happy Reading 🙂

Cry out.

I am writing this post today. Not because of any specific reason, but just to express myself and what I truly feel sometimes.

Being human it’s true every one of you go through hardships, troublesome time, confused, do something which you don’t want to do but eventually have to do because there is no other go, may it be for your good or bad, completely pressurised and won’t understand how will you ever be able to look up and face the world around you.

Just because of this reason that you are surrounded with so many people around you. It’s natural to hold yourself back and make yourself strong enough that you appear all rock solid, emotionally stable and strong human in front of everyone and also you tend to prove it to yourself. True. Undoubtedly, you must get strong to face the world around you.

But, amidst of all this there comes a time when you feel deep down within you that all you want to do once is TO CRY OUT LOUD.

You know, it’s really very difficult to actually cry your heart out when your surrounded with so many people who care about you, who can’t see you break down like that and that’s why you stand up again and cry within yourself in the closet of your own self, without letting anyone know that you actually did cry out some-night, some-day or whenever possible.

But, doing this will burden your heart more and more. As days pass by, you will seem to be rock solid in front of everyone except for the one person and that one person is YOU who knows that even you want to cry yourself out and lighten yourself.

Trust me when I say this, when you really make some time for yourself and spend some time alone and rethink, relieve yourself from such heartaches by crying yourself out is when you actually feel much much better.

I wish, I could do that too sometime soon. You should also try this out and maybe then you may feel much much better before crying your heart out.

To all the brave hearts out there, who are staying strong for themselves, their family, their close ones, their friends or be it for anyone you love.

Honest opinion. Not being judgemental. But trying to be practical. 🙂

Missing Piece of Puzzle.

Puzzle is a word which derives lots and lots of metaphoric explanation when compared to our day-to-day life.

How many times you have ever been puzzled in your life. How many of you have come across this situation?

One moment you feel you have started to get all that you desire or wish to have in your life. Everything is falling in place. Your super happy about it.

The very next moment you start to feel there is something very important which is still missing in your life. And suddenly you start craving for it. All the happiness is gone for a toss. Only thing you want is that something which you crave for even after you have every other thing with you.

People might say it’s human tendency to always crave and desire for something new every time. I totally agree with it.

But at the same time. There will be something very special to you which we will leave you completely puzzled and you really can’t be without it in your life.

You might even get a thought. Why should I only be in this kind of situation every single time.

True! that it is but-natural. At this very moment you might be puzzled. You might be in complete confusion. Perplexed. Worried.

But, amidst all this remember. Bottom line is be sure of one thing. There is nothing that happens in your life which has no purpose or rightful reason behind it.

If that precious piece is missing and keeping you puzzled. There is a reason. Wait for it. There comes a time which will answer the reason behind the missing piece which is keeping you puzzled.

In short. Life is a Puzzle and Craving for something precious in your life is the missing piece. When you get it is the ultimate time when the puzzle is completely solved.

Happy Reading. 😊