Late post on Thanksgiving!

This morning, a day after Thanksgiving.

I would first like to thank all of you guys who make some effort to stop by my blog every single time and go through all the articles I write and show some love in form of likes, comments, shares and all.

(I know, I am way too late to post anything on thanksgiving.ย But still, I could not wait a year-long again until next time for another thanksgiving day to come to thank you guys)

Thank you.. so very much for all of it. It really is overwhelming to know that this blog of mine has made it to 670+ followers and 8500+ views till date.

Honestly, If I look back to the day I first wrote my blog post in the month of October last year. I had no clue it would even come this far. I had no clue if anyone would even read what I write on my blog.

But, the response I received in the month of Feb 2018 was really overwhelming. It was 3100+ views in a single month which is highest I have received in a month till date.

Feb

After which, I wrote for another month and then..

Lost it.ย Was hit with such a road block as a writer that it took almost 7 months for me to get back onto my blog and start writing all over again.

To my surprise. I was truly overwhelmed by the response I received from you all. For welcoming me with your cheerful and uplifting comments on my posts. Which in turn helped me to stay up and motivated to write more and more.

Well, for this amazing love and support that you all have showered on me to be back on track โค โค

Thank you so much. It really means a lot to me.ย Happy Belated Thanksgiving โค

Happy Reading until next time! ๐Ÿ™‚

 

Point of view.

This is an instinctive post that I am writing today. It just came to my mind when I was watching a movie while I was having dinner with my family this night.

It’s midnight here in India now and I am writing this post, maybe this is why people who know me well call me as nocturnal these days! ๐Ÿ˜€.

Coming back to what I was saying. Situation in the movie was something like this.

A marriage proposal breakup took place because the guy [who is self-centered, only cares about his happiness and he just wants to win and live his life just the way he wants to, he was totally against the word compromise and believed that two people in marriage can be happy only when they are exactly the same] on the other side was this girl [who was exactly opposite of how he was, she always cared about others around her, who believed that she would be happy when everyone along with her is happy and the one who believed if two people in marriage needs to be happy it is not necessary that they should be the same inย  everything].

With this background, it so happened that the guy felt, the girl was making lot of compromises to make herself fit into his lifestyle, his likes & dislikes. She had to leave her dance for him as she was learning it from past 20 years and enjoyed doing it. Little did he know that the girl was doing all this for him only because she clearly knew and saw that her world and priorities with the marriage would be just him and she was doing all that with her wish and was happy doing it.

After all that took place, girl was shattered to pieces when she knew that the guy whom she had started to love and felt that he is the perfect guy for her had left her completely broken with his point of view.

If you try to understand something from this, this just wasn’t the part of only the movie scene I narrated above. It’s almost the same with you, me and everyone around us these days. Rarely, you try to understand what is the point of view of other person in front of you. Based on whatever the situation you are in, you almost tend to build the probable possibilities, foresee things based on your assumptions and give your verdict to the person standing in front of you and just walk away.

If it does happen like this, for sure you will lose the person who was in front you while you passed the verdict because you never gave him/her any chance of understanding his/her point of view.

Well, because of this I see that most of us loosing out on hard-earned relationships be it friends, family, relatives or whoever it is. Only when you express your point of view & allow the one in front of you to express his point of view. Things get clear. Misunderstanding never occur. Every relationship will be a wonderful place to say without any hatred, misunderstandings and heart-aches.

And yes, later part of the movie the girl somehow made him realize he never gave her a chance to express her point of view and when he got to know what the girl’s point of view was about what he had thought about the compromises she was making for him and why she was doing all that for him. Itย was a happy ending to movie at the end.

Live your life. Express your point of view. Allow others to express it too and see how life changes in the best possible ways.

Honest opinion. Feel free to express your opinion about this. Let me know if I have missed out on anything. I will surely be more than happy to look into it.

Happy Reading ๐Ÿ™‚

Liebstar Award – #2

Hey guys, it’s totally an honor to receive this award for the 2nd time. Well, it’s almost been more than 2 weeks having been nominated for this award by this awesome blogger friend of mine Avni. Thank you so much for nominating me for this award and I honestly apologize for delay in responding to this as I was damn caught up and stuck in my work.

Avni has already made her presence felt across many fellow bloggers already because of her humble and kind nature. You guys should definitely check out her blog 11avni11 she’s a sweet little 15-year-old girl who honestly writes all that pops up to her mind and intends to make her readers feel good & satisfied about what she writes.

Liebster Award

Itโ€™s an award in which bloggers nominate other bloggers for showing respect to their works and their dedication. Itโ€™s an appreciation and recognition for all the fellow bloggers out there in the blogosphere.

Let’s get back and answer the questions asked By Avni!

1. Day Or Night? – It’s a little difficult to answer this question for me to be honest with this. Day – Gives me an opportunity to start a fresh and keep hoping. Night – Gives me an opportunity to spend some lone time & find peace within myself.

2. Coffee Or Ice cream? – Coffee for sure. Because, In one word – I just love it.

3. Winters Or Summer? – Winters it is. Simply because I love winter season as all the activities related to Christmas begins and there will be Carols, Christmas Sweets, Celebrations everywhere, Cake and so on.. ๐Ÿ˜€

4. High School Or University? – Yet again, it’s really difficult for me in some situations to choose between two. Like in the case of Day & Night and now this. Let me reason out why.. High School – Nostalgic! days which remains in one’s memories for the rest of our lives. University – Teenage time where in you undergo all sort of emotional battles and you’re in phase of transition from amateur teenager to a mature young adult. These two-phase being one of the most memorable days of my life. I really can’t opt between one and thus explained both of it.. ๐Ÿ˜‰

5. Dancing Or Singing? – Singing for sure. Being able to play guitar and sing along.. Dancing has never been my cup of tea.

6. Reading Or Writing? – Both again.. (I’m so sorry breaking your rule of choosing just one ๐Ÿ˜› ) Reading – It makes me feel good basically when I get along and connect with the other person has penned down. Writing – It lets me ease out my emotions in times of joy, in times of stress and so on.. ๐Ÿ˜‰

7. Children Or Parents? – OMG! Avni.. this question is surely like “Which one do you like the most? Your Left Eye or Right Eye?” ๐Ÿ˜› (Of-course, to a married man though). I being single, I have all the liberty to choose Parents as of now as I don’t have any children yet.. ๐Ÿ˜›

On a serious note. Children and Parents when they get older and older as we grow up.. They both are just one and the same. Their isn’t much difference between them if we look at them right? One request to all those who are reading this note.. please please take care of your parents when they start getting old in the same way as they managed to take care of you when you were a kid. We know it too right? we had no clue of what to we wanted at that moment but they still managed to understand it and provide us with it just to keep us happy and satisfied. If at all we attempt to just to do a little bit of what they did for us. Then, no doubt they will have their best of time in their old age. ๐Ÿ™‚

8. Street Art Or Paintings by Professionals (eg. Mona lisa, starry night)? – Street Art – No specific reason to it. Just like them.

9. Instagram Or Facebook? – Instagram – Because it is filled with only pictures that talk to me much closely and I connect with it well than I do with Facebook these days.

10. Hill stations Or Beaches? – Beaches for sure. I love the incomparable peace we get by seeing those tides running towards us and leaving us behind with a subtle touch. Gushing sound of tides, morning sunrise and evening sunset makes me feel happy within. ๐Ÿ™‚

11. What do you like the most about India? (Your views about India). – India being my country! I love it the most. Their isn’t just one thing that I love the most about India. There are many things of course. Being such a diversified country with huge masses living together and talking in various languages but still are together living in one piece of land and that is India to me. Diversified with different cultures but united with one proud though that we are Indians! and this I love the most.

In the end. Thank you so much again Avni for giving me this opportunity to answer these amazing questions. I really enjoyed it. ๐Ÿ™‚

Time for some nominations now! ๐Ÿ™‚

  1. Sann
  2. Ngaoscn
  3. Zena Krishnoo
  4. Shruti Ohri
  5. flyingcolours603
  6. Jhavinder Thakur
  7. Zovi
  8. Rudra Makwana
  9. Arooba
  10. Anil Ratywal
  11. Yuulye

Rules time!

  1. Thank the blogger who nominated you in your blog post and links back to his/her blog. Write about his/her blog too.
  2. Answering 11 questions that the Blogger asked you.
  3. Nominate 11 new bloggers to receive the awards and write them 11 questions.
  4. List the rules and display the Liebster award logo in your post and thank him/her for nominating you.

Disclaimer: Please go right ahead and chose the same questions to answer. Also, there is no compulsion to being a part of this chain, even though I would love for you to! I understand โ€“ that life gets busy at times. if you do answer please don’t forget to let me know about it here so that I’ll drop in to read your answers too! ๐Ÿ™‚

Thank you for reading my answers and nominations all the way until here. Much love ๐Ÿ™‚

Cold Coffee & French Fries.

Let me tell you a short story of Cold Coffee aka CC and French Fries aka FF ๐Ÿ˜€

Prologue

CC will meet FF after a very long time. Irony of CC & FF is though these two are very close in reality but far off when it comes to face to face talks. Best of its kind. Short story of not so long but a short distance relationship of CC & FF.

Chapter

CC meets FF after a very long time in a coffee shop. The excitement they both carried was unmatchable. They couldn’t resist any distance between each other anymore and exchanged a tight hug which lasted for much longer time than usual in absolute silence.

Amidst this serene moment between CC and FF. There comes a noise from background.

(No more silence in the place)

CC asks FF if she is ok with the background noise. FF in a smiling tone said. If our conversation continues amidst all the background noise I will be perfectly alright. And the noise from background now knew what they needed and just left them all alone again.

And both started theirย conversation again. Both went on talking and talking like they would never get to meet each other again.

Amidst their conversation little did they know when CC ate complete french fries and FF drank whole of cold coffee without there notice.

Because of the immense noise around. There came a time where they decided to end their conversation.

But. By now they knew that they ateย and drank each other so much so and it is impossible for them to end but had to and so came to a mutual conclusion.

And at the end. They leave it on time to decide whether their conversation will have any meaning to it or not.

But the conversation continued forever โค๏ธ

Disclaimer

Just to bring it to your notice. All this time I was using the metaphors to describe the love story of an adorable couple.

Coffee shop = Life.

Cold Coffee = Boy.

French Fries = Girl.

Conversation = Love.

Noise from background = People surrounding them be it friends, relatives and so on.

No more silence in place = Frustrations and Restlessness between the two.

Ate & Drank without there noticeย = Understanding each other to such an extent without even noticing about the very fact of how much they know each other.

Noise around = Situations and Circumstances in front of them.

Meaning to it = Togetherness forever.

ยฉ Richard Peter

It’s Okay.

Do you anytime feel that people you are surrounded with will never know you. They are not living up to your expectations. What you want people to do. They are not doing it for you.

All trouble. All Agony. Battle is going around in your mind. Your are not able to focus in your day-to-day activities.

Why do you think this will happen. It’s because, you need to understand this. Any third person for that matter will not be knowing much about your journey. Even if they know. Possible chances that they might have faced even more struggle and troublesome times. That, whatever your going through might seem to be very small in front of it.

When such things happens. You tend to break down. You feel no one pays any attention to you. People around hardly pays any attention to you.

So, what can be done for it. Sit back and worry. Get depressed. No. Never.

Instead. Don’t worry much. Rather, Be StrongBe courageous. Don’t Breakdown. Don’t Give-up. Say to yourself.

It’s Okay.

It’s Okay, Every other person will not understand my Journey.

It’s Okay, Every other person have their own problems in their life to look after.

It’s Okay, I need to start paying attention to myself.

It’s Okay, I will look after to my problems and deal with it.

It’s Okay, I am strong enough to take care of my self.

It’s Okay, I love myself more from this day on-wards!

Moral: When you start believing in yourself. No matter what comes in your way. Any problem. Any disappointments. Be sure. Everything will just seem like it is nothing but a pea in a pot. You can overcome it with ease and much greater confidence. 

So, It’s okay. Believe in yourself. Never Give up ๐Ÿ˜Š

If at all you feel, that above post did connect with you. Feel free to drop your thoughts on this in the comments section below. Show your gesture of love towards me with likes and shares ๐Ÿ™‚

Happy Reading! ๐Ÿ™‚